Climbing back to the top 3: Blame game

Blame game
The next line of action to take is what I call the blame game. I think it is important that you learn something about the blame game.
Normally humans have the tendency to put the blame on someone or something for any failure. What ever the situation there is someone to blame. Playing the blame game is not necessary a negative thing. What is important is the rule by which you play the game. Traditionally the blame game would mean that you look for someone to blame except yourself. When you turn this rule upside down you come up with a rule that says that you should look out for all the things you did to contribute to your failure instead of someone else. Someone has to be blamed and that should be you. This will enable you see your weaknesses and hopefully give you the chance to see what you could have done better.
Remember it is always better to look out for what you could have done to prevent that defeat or failure.